Red Flags In A Relationship That You Shouldn’t Ignore

Shillpi S Banerrji

Shillpi S Banerrji

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Red Flags In A Relationship That You Shouldn’t Ignore

When we enter a new relationship, we tend to ignore signs, enter the honeymoon phase, and be blinded by love and passion. We don’t keep our eyes open, and later when things go south, we wonder why didn’t we see it coming? While being in love and going with the flow is perfect, it is not good to ignore signs before diving too deep into love. Accepting someone for who they are is ideal, but do not ignore red flags that might show up later and ruin the perfect image you have in the end and shatter your emotions. 

It’s essential to notice red flags in your relationship so you can deal with them appropriately and decide if this relationship is the best one for you. Check out which red flags to look out for so that you can proceed with caution or cut things off if necessary.

1: They Lie Frequently

If they are dishonest and frequently lie, it isn’t a good sign. While they must be masters at covering up their tracks, if you come to know someone keeps lying to you and hiding things, it shows that they have other intentions and are not honest with you about their feelings.

You can’t let it always slide because you deserve someone honest about their choices and doesn’t lie so often and make you doubt yourself. Lying is a big red flag, and if you catch your partner doing that, it is time to talk to them and clear things out.

2: You Are Second-guessing Their Feelings

If you feel like you are putting all the effort and your partner is taking you for granted or treats you well at their convenience, it isn’t a good sign. You need someone to love you equally and not make you feel insecure and like you don’t matter to them as much as they matter to you.

Giving space is essential, but if you think your partner isn’t as sure as you are about them, then maybe it’s a red flag you need to consider.  

3: A Lack Of Healthy Communication

Communication is a foundation of a relationship, so we have a big problem if you both can’t communicate openly and healthily. You need to have a friend in your partner, and if you can’t communicate with them, it is a big issue. Do you need to think about if you will be okay with this in the long run? You deserve love and someone you can have no filters around.

A healthy relationship is where both partners speak openly about their emotions without fear of judgment or criticism. Consider this red flag, and don’t settle for less.

4: The Relationship Is All About Them

A relationship is perfect when it is about both of you. But, if they are making it all about them and only interact as per their mood, make the calls shorts and text when they feel like it isn’t a good sign. They are too selfish to be in a relationship, and it will be all about compromising for you.

If you are going through this, it’s time to sit down, look at the big red flag and do something about it because you deserve someone who is head over heels in love with you and makes you feel happy and loved. 


5: They Don’t Support Your Goals Like You Support Theirs

We all need love and a partner who is our biggest cheerleader. While you are out there rooting for your partner and supporting their goals, no matter how confused they might be right now, that’s a terrible thing if they don’t do the same for you. You will be happy and successful with someone who has total faith in your abilities and is by your side cheering.

You need someone who grows with you, and if you feel insecure about yourself because your partner shoots down your goals or doesn’t give that unconditional love and support, you need to know they aren’t the ones you need in your life. Whoever you date should believe in you, support your dreams and ambitions, and give unconditional love that you reach the big picture and have the most fantastic person to celebrate all your wins with.

6: They Talk About Their Past Relationships

Talking about your past relationships is alright but constantly bringing it up is not good. You want to be in the present and think about a future with this person, but it is bound to hurt you if they keep talking about the people they have been with. It is a big red flag that your partner is not in the moment and is stuck in the past or values these moments too much.

It would be best if you had someone who has healed through the past and is ready to make a lovely present with you as the only one in focus.

7: You Do Things To Get Their Attention

You don’t need to try hard to get your partners attention. It is not a healthy relationship if you are putting up Instagram stories to get them to react or comment, and it bothers you if they don’t reply or talk to you enough.

A lovely relationship is where both of you make each other feel wanted and secure. If you feel that your partner is okay with losing you and isn’t as into you as you are into them, then you should consider this red flag and know maybe this isn’t the one for you.

8: You Aren’t Truly Happy With Them

If your partner is not making you happy, you may need to look at the entire picture and see what you want to do about it. Our happiness is the most important thing, and if you aren’t happy in your relationship and it is bringing more stress than calmness and happiness, you need to do something about it.

A healthy relationship adds value to your life, and a perfect partner will make you so happy that you will glow with love. You need to make someone happy and receive the same passion and happiness.

You deserve the best love and a partner who is madly in love with you. Consider these red flags, and don’t settle for less because you will attract your soulmate once you know what is good for you and make space for that love to enter and bring in a lot of happiness and miracles.

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